She Can Make us ALL HAPPY 😁 | BOAB 240

Cindy Rai's unique talent is helping others go from hurting to happy in 30 minutes. In this episode you will get to meet Cindy and see her in action plus learn the 3 step plan for returning back to my sailboat. Once you learn Cindy's story and the unimaginable amount of pain she has overcome you will see why she is such a unique and gifted woman. You can learn all about her and the work she does on her website. https://www.happinesshives.com/ Text her at 509-979-2223 My old and New Identity for curious minds or if your interested in doing a similar exercise and would like an example. Old Identity: I am hurt from my childhood which creates a feeling of hopelessness and nervousness. Deep down I am sad for myself and the world but I'm good at hiding it. I escape these negative emotions by having a good time. I don't want to chase money because those who have it appear miserable plus I believe consumerism is destroying the planet and creating suffering. Money was the biggest cause of stress in my family so I believe not caring about it helps me avoid suffering. Thinking about money stresses me out so I don't think about it. I am scared of failing in a relationship so I don't want one. I am extreme and go from victim to all my fault. I'm afraid to make goals, can't fail if I don't want it. I am hard on myself as a way of acting strong. I am out of control and repeat patterns of too much of a good time leading to set backs, hurting loved ones and suffering. I stopped wanting anything that resembles success (money, relationships, kids, career) to avoid the pain of failure. I AVOID CONFLICT. New Identity: I am full of hope and have the courage to clearly define my desires. I am confident and relaxed in all situations. Deep down there is a bubbling feeling of happiness and I love to share it with the world. I am grateful for my family and all of our struggles. I am this wonderful gift to the world thanks to my parents. Money is a magnifying glass into my soul and I will create an abundance of it in order to make a positive impact in the lives of my loved ones and the world. I am worthy of a healthy and enduring relationship and focus on what I can give in one. I am fully responsible for my life. Life happens for me not to me. I make goals and have the courage to fail giving them all I got. I forgive myself and always look to build myself up. I am able to celebrate with friends while remaining in control. I face conflict with a level head knowing I want the best for me and others. I have clearly defined wants and my habits bring them to me. Let's Go Baby