🇬🇧Due to trauma, I had lost myself but by staying positive, I grew unnoticed to where I am today. Last year, instead of spontaneously going out with friends for two days, I would stay at home and be there for my youngest who by now actually likes having the boat to herself. Being a mother. After the death of my husband, I didn't allow myself to be Vita as well. But that is changing now, unnoticed and it feels good. Damn good! If I want to live life again, I also have to live ‘Vita’ and learn that this is not selfish but makes me a better mother. 🇳🇱Door trauma's was ik mijzelf kwijt maar door positief te blijven ben ik ongemerkt gegroeid tot waar ik vandaag sta. Vorig jaar zou ik niet spontaan twee dagen met vrienden meegaan maar thuisblijven en er voor mijn jongste zijn die inmiddels eigenlijk het juist lekker vind om de boot voor haarzelf te hebben. Moeder zijn. Na het overlijden van mijn man gunde ik het mijzelf niet om ook Vita te zijn. Maar daar zit nu verandering in , ongemerkt en dat voelt goed. Als ik het leven weer wil leven dan moet ook 'Vita' leven en leer dat ik dit niet egoïstisch is maar dat het mij juist een betere moeder maakt. @hellyhansen @hellyhansensailing

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